I think when you have a child like Jackson you become
accustomed to hearing and saying the word “can’t”. I know for myself I have used it a lot when
describing him. I will say “Jackson can’t
walk, Jackson can’t talk.” It has become
a part of my daily vocabulary. But the
last couple of weeks have proven to me that while there are some things Jackson
can’t do, there are some things I can cross off that “can’t” list. And I couldn’t be happier about it.
When I took the leadership class at the Arc last year part
of the program was learning about resources in our community. When the Spokane Parks and Recreation woman
came to talk about the Therapeutic Recreation Service for people with
disabilities she mentioned adaptive skiing.
As soon as I heard about it I had a new goal for Jackson. I grew up skiing the great ski resorts in the
mountains of Colorado. In my teen years
we only went to school 4 days a week and had Monday’s off. The local resorts would let us ski for free
on Monday’s. If you weren’t skiing, you
were missing out. I love skiing. When I was pregnant with Jackson and dreaming
of all the things I would do with him, skiing was on that list. So when I heard there might be a chance for
Jackson to ski, well it was a no-brainer, my kid was doing it. I could hardly wait for this winter to
arrive. When I finally got that
registration, I cried when I filled it out.
Jackson was going to ski! As that
first ski day quickly approached I went shopping for ski necessities – gloves,
long underwear, fleece pants. I had him
all lined out, now the big test – would he like it?
The first day of skiing arrived and it was as if Jackson
knew something great was about to happen.
He woke up in the best mood. The
whole drive up to the mountain he was squealing with delight, laughing,
wiggling around in his car seat. He was
excited. Despite being in so many layers
he could barely sit up, he was all smiles as they put him in the bi-ski. Before I knew it he was on the chair lift
heading up the mountain. His instructor
said he was a bit nervous on the lift that first time. He was holding his breath and laughing
nervously. But after that, nothing but
happiness on the chair lift. Watching
him come down that mountain for the first time is something I won’t
forget. Needless to say both Kevin and I
cried. As for Jackson, well I don’t know
why I was even worried. He loves the
outdoors, he loves cold weather, he loves going fast, and he’s my kid. He absolutely loved it! Not only did he love it but he lasted the
full 2 hours! He doesn’t enjoy anything
for 2 hours! I was shocked and
elated. He again surprised the hell out
of me, one of my favorite things about him.
Jackson CAN ski!
As if the skiing thing wasn’t enough, the next day my sister
took the kids to see the movie Frozen. I
knew there was no way he would last through a movie. But I thought it would be a good way to find
out how long he would last in a movie.
Something I hadn’t wanted to figure out on my own. As I am sure you can guess by now, he made it
through the whole movie and was as happy as can be. Proven wrong again by a 5 year old. Jackson CAN go to a movie!
This time I end my post with a quote that fits my beautiful
little boy who is continually teaching me life lessons. When I read this quote I imagine the words as
Jackson’s own. “I am only one. But still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do
something. And because I cannot do
everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.” (Edward
Everett Hale)
Thank you for the sweet happy tears rolling down my face!!! There WILL be more can's coming your way!!! Of course Jackson loves the outdoors....it's in his gene pool...his mom and dad are outdoor freaks!!! Hugs!!!!!
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